she left the harbour

This picture is about this evening. We met a friend who told us about his broken marriage. My husband gave a many advices, I felt we ought to listen to his story without any comment, just listen. And sometimes it's better to say something which helps someone to become aware of some inner processes. I believe every story has many layers below the surface. A layer of the hidden agendas, a layers of emotions, a layers old histories, a layer of unconsious feelings, a layer of unconsious beliefs, a layer of prints of the past, sometimes a layer of the history of our ancestors.... And many more. All those layers have influence on our present situation.While we talked, I became aware of my husbands layers. How they have influence on our marriage. It hit me somehow, I need to make contact with my own layers... I have the feeling that I need to inquire my thoughts about our marriage. It can be very interesting. I need time for that... Don't know when.... Maybe I will draw something about it. I'm very curious. But at this moment I wanna send our friend some energy.....